Tomorrow morning I will ride out of Parral towards Durango.
Like I had wrote, Parral caught me by surprise. I wasn’t expecting to spend so many days here. I arrived on Tuesday, straight from the U.S., and now it’s Saturday night and I’m finally committed to moving on tomorrow.
So, what is it about Parral that grabbed me? It’s hard to describe accurately as there really isn’t one reason. It’s chaotic with peace, friendly and colorful, happy and noisy, busy and but with a system. It’s layers of different things and if you just stand still long enough it changes and surprises. It’s a quilt of culture, space and structure that has been woven my many over time.
Every place I look there are layers of design and life. Old and new collide in both the structures and in the culture itself.
The majority of my time here was spent walking the streets and observing. Every so often I would find a corner to stand on or a park with a bench and a view and I would just watch the locals.
Watching how locals live their lives, how they do their job, interact with people, spend their leisure time - I try to get inside their head from a distance and see what they must be seeing. Since there is such a great language barrier I cannot pick up on exactly what is being said so I must rely on body language, expressions, tones and interactions.
And, every once in a while I’m able to grab a photo of something I like, something I find unique or indicative of this time and place. And then, click. Hopefully I’ve captured it so years later as the luster of the now fresh experience gives way to a more dulled memory I can look back at a photo and I will once again be in Parral in January, trying to live through the locals.
I never get the feeling that this is a town that hosts many tourists, at least not American tourists. It’s a shame but a blessing as well. I love to get lost in the side streets and alleys that climb up the hillsides because this is where the life is that escapes the public eye.
It’s amazing how patient Mexicans are with me as I fumble Spanish words and stumble over their language. I wish I could say the same for a lot of Americans whom lose patience with those that speak English as a second language or barely speak English.
I can say from personal experience that at times it can be pretty lonely or at least isolating to be in a city or town and not understand the language. You are basically left with just the thoughts in your head. It’s not always easy. But imagine if those same people in your space act aggressively to you because you don’t speak the language (well). How much more difficult would life be and how unnecessarily?
I’m lucky I’m treated with patience, understanding and respect here.
And it wasn’t just the people of Parral that were so interesting. These are the buildings, structures and places that caught my eye.